Ok, here we go... I have made a few attempts to blog but never got to complete them.
There has been sooo much happening since I last blogged that it's hard to get everything down, so I will have to just pick up from here.
The trip to bring home our little boy was one we will never forget and a piece of our hearts will forever be with the orphanage. The children there were just beautiful, we had lots of play time with them all and the only one that didn't want anything to do with us was our son, Jeremiah.
It was so hard when we first saw him not to just hold him and kiss him, but we sat back and took it as slow as he needed. He was very attached to a few of his carers and clung to them as much as he could, whilst watching us, trying to work us out.
The day we finally took him from the orphanage was heart breaking. The other children and carers sung us a farewell song, said a prayer and gave us hugs goodbye. The whole time this was going on, JJ was screaming, the carers were all crying.... it was so emotional. JJ was so upset that I had to keep telling myself that this was a good sign. If he has attached to someone then he can attach again. Some children have never learnt to bond with anyone and have a hard time ever fully bonding.
What's changed since then?
He is adjusting really well. Absolutely loves his brothers and sister, and gives us huge giggles, hugs and kisses. He calls us Mummy and Daddy and is always on the go discovering this new world. He is just beautiful.
Although we were not there for his first tooth, word, and steps, we have been able to share so many firsts with him. We take for granted the things around us, and it was so special watching JJ see a whole new world...his first bath, carpet (which he licked), cupboards, drawers, television..and so much more.
We are still having to work on a few areas, but he is doing far better than we thought he would, and we will tackle things one day at a time. One thing is certain though....I would've waited 20years for this little blessing that is asleep beside me and I again am amazed at God's awesome love and blessings.
2/18/07
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Hey Brandi! SO glad you posted!!! I forgot to bookmark your blog name, so I missed all Phoebe's posts while you were away! Just caught up now... even though I know everything went well!
JJ sounds like he's coming along in leaps and bounds. Fantastic! He is SUCH a sweet looking little boy (Jen V sent me some photos!)
Congratulations on welcoming your son and brother into your family!
Hi Brandi, I am an old friend of Phoebe's so I too have followed your journey and am so glad you posted I have been checking nearly every day. Glad he has settled for you. Congratulations
Hi Brandi,
so glad to see that my newest great nephew is settling in so well. we wish you all the best my love.say hi to all the kids for us.
luv
leoni
xxx
Congratulations!
Good to hear it's all going well. I worry about attatchment disorder - so glas JJ is able to attatch. You're right, that makes all the difference.
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