I picked her up from school early so we could buy a birthday outfit for a very special date, a dinner date with her Daddy. Emily was so excited, Adrian was taking her to a restaurant to be treated like a lady.
Emily had a bath with special smelling "big girl" water ( 2 drops of lavender oil and 1/4 cup of milk powder did the job nicely). Then she prepared herself for her dinner date.
It was so funny, when Adrian got home he wasn't allowed to see her until she was completely ready - earrings, necklace, hair, lip gloss, and a touch of Mummy's perfume over her clothes.
Adrian got dressed up, we all oohh'd and arhhh'd at the birthday girl and then they set off for the restaurant.
Emily had her chair pulled out for her, ate chips and nuggets (we made sure we chose a restaurant that would still cater for kids meals), watched a jazz band in amazement and had a fantastic time.
Adrian presented her with a book called "I'd be your princess". The book is about a little girl talking with her Daddy and imagining all the things they would do together if he was a king and she was his princess, and at the end the Daddy says that " even if I'm never a king and we never live in a castle and never.........etc........you will still be my princess because I love you so very much". He read the book to her and then brought the sleepy little princess home.
The night was such a huge deal to Emily, the next day she said that when they were at the restaurant, she felt like a real Mummy ( her way of saying a real lady).
Adrian and I believe that all little (and big) girls have such a want and need to be seen as beautiful, inside and out, and if they don't get that clarification from their Daddy, then they tend to jump into the arms of the first boy that makes them feel special, important, beautiful. We want Emily to know beyond a doubt that she is a princess of God, that she is beautiful, and that she is loved. Hopefully we can install a security in her so that when she grows up, she will know who she is in God and not seek the security that she's worth something in the wrong arms.
